All i know is that i am ready to write all and to confess yet again what i have learned over the past few weeks, months and even over these years!
It's been so long since my last blog,
and of course it is because of the very busy lifestyle that i have right now! Actually it's not that bad compared to how it was about a year ago!
Mia is now 13 months and she gives me joy every time i see her. She's growing up really fast! and till now i still can't believe she's had her 1st birthday!
Being a mom, working part time, trying to run my own business as well as studying part-time is a very busy tiring life and i confess that sometimes i get so angry and get so tired about it all. The funny thing is that i'm so exhausted that i just want to curl up in a ball and cry it all off but i cant! - i'm just too tired to! and crying is just gonna take up all my energy! haha I really did feel like running from it all!
I had also been so stressed about some events that had happened months ago, and i feel so unstable and shaken by it all.... i didn't know what to do...
But yesterday, after having a beautiful conversation with my friend Razel about having "me" time i had a light bulb moment! When was the last time i had my "me"?! - I can't even remember....
Well, maybe i've had some "me" time here and there, but i really was not conscious about it that i don't even appreciate it as much as the knowing that i've had it.... (make sense?) haha
I believe it is important to have "me" time specially on busy days, we really need to give ourselves permission to spend sometime alone, and do the things we love. It's so weird cos this is actually what i would always tell myself before it got so busy.... i totally forgot this one rule! Have some time for yourself! and more importantly with GOD!
So yes, from now on, i will make a conscious effort to have a "me" time!
When was the last time YOU had your "me" time?
Here's some "me" time ideas to get you started! Specially for the busy busy moms out there!
- Go for a walk
- Read a good book
- Have a bubble bath
- Watch a dvd and drink some hot choc
- Paint your nails (my fave)
- Have a good nap!
- Go shopping (also my fave)
- Cook something you have never cooked before
- Get your hair done
- Get a massage
The list goes on and on....
Go on, i dare you. Have a "me time" :)
You deserve it. Have a lovely day!
Fideliz x
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